It’s Your Wedding Day……Take It All In and Relax

I’ve always thought that a Bride, just before her ceremony, in that little quiet moment just before she headed for the back of the aisle was always at her most beautiful.  It’s that moment just before the big moment.  She is dressed, everything is set, everyone is waiting and no one more than her Groom.  It’s almost like this tiny little piece of calm falls over the day just for a second and it’s one of my most favourite times of the day as a photographer.  So before we head to another wedding tomorrow I thought I’d share some little tips I’ve learned over the past few years for Brides and Grooms for that time just before you say “I Do.”

• First off, just breathe.  And soak it in.  But you know that.
• Before the day gather together a little first aid kit that will be in the room.  It isn’t really a first aid kit, its a ‘what if’ kit.  In it should be bandaids, baby pins, bobby pins, thread (white and black), needle, zip ties or twist ties, a pen, paper, cell phone numbers you’ll need (photographer, florist etc), Shout Pen (the stain remover thing-a-ma-jiggy), spare medications (allergy, Tylenol, Pepto, etc) and breath mints (hey it’s your first kiss….)
• Have snacks in the room.  I’m not talking about a full spread, but even just some fruit, nuts and granola bars if you like.  You don’t want to feel all bloated and full, but you really don’t want low blood sugar.  Pack enough for everyone that will be in the room.
• Drink water.  Being dehydrated is a big problem and when we’re excited we sometimes forget to drink.
• Plan to get dressed just a little early to avoid the panicked feeling of having to run out the door.  Try to leave yourself a few minutes to catch your breath before you see each other at the ceremony.  You don’t have to clock watch, but maybe have someone there do it for you.

That’s it.  Enjoy it.  You look amazing, this is your day.  Did I mention to drink water?

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